Post 3--success

what is success ? There is no universal definition for success. For different person, it has different means. For me, I think, success has several definition depending on different scopes.

For my family, my success means that: I have stable job and stable income, I can raise my child and my parents, I have big success that means I have ability to help my siblings to live better. If I can send my child to study abroad and help my child get a good job, that is a big success for me, also for most Chinese,I think. Please don't say my mind is too superficial or too narrow. There is no good society guarantee in China as good as in western country or euro, we can not to live without money. Only we have money, we can talk about happy,dream and helping others. It will be totally different in western countries, they have very good society guarantee, they can keep alive even they don't work. so they can do some social jobs to help others.

For big success, of course helping others is ultimate definition. Successful people should help all the citizen over the country to live better without worried about disease, lack of money, jobless,etc. More successful people should help world to keep peace, making people all over world stepping into beautiful world where there is no hungry, no disease, no war.

But there is rarely people can realize the second success as what I mentioned, so let us back to reality, let us work hard and earn enough money to raise our family.

How do you deal with success and failure? I agree with part of Elizabeth Gilbert' words. When we experience failure or difficulty, we must insist or keep doing again and again just as Elizabeth Gilbert said. But we can not again forever, we can insist doing same thing for 3 years or 5 years without even little success, after that wen can not do it again, what we need to do is to find the reason. Maybe we are really not appropriate for that job which we have done for many years, we should consider changing it and trying another one, maybe we can approach a big success even we change a little. Because life is so short, we can not be too stubborn, we need deal with failure flexibly. Of course, when we reach achievement or success , we cannot feel arrogant or conceited, what we always need to do is keep peace and focus on our career which is right for us.

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